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Writing - Breathing for the Soul - Our Shared Superpower

Since I've started writing again, I've come to the conclusion that for me, writing really is like breathing for my soul.

The sense of calm and relief I feel and possess when I write is transformative compared to when I don't.

I'm happier.  In all things.  All of the time.  It's like having a superpower that transcends all aspects of my life.

Taking the time to write is in itself taking time to treat myself with a kindness I would usually only reserve for others.

Like a soul-spa.  It cleanses and renews.

It enables me to cut through the top 'chaos-layer' and reveal what sits underneath.  It's a way to cut out the noise and focus in on what's really true and what really matters.

I get perspective too.  So if things are troubling or emotive, writing gives me the opportunity to 'talk it out' on the page and make sense of it all.  I am always clear by the time I'm done.  I know why I feel the way I do and what action I need to take.

Whatever action I then do take is done with conviction.  Because I have already considered it from different angles and perspectives which not only enable me to identify paths towards a solution, but also which of those paths is the best to take.  I can proceed doubt-free.

So why is it that this magic superpower we all possess is something we don't prioritise in our every day?  Why do we put our energy into writing a shopping list but not writing about how we feel?

I wonder if we simply don't unlock it's value.

We are taught to write in school as a means of communication in order to communicate with others.  But we do not stop to consider it as a valuable method for also communicating with ourselves.

Perhaps this is the biggest lesson of all.  To learn to write to ourselves.

WM x


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